记得，您如何对我
记得，您又如何服侍您的好媳妇，您的宝贝儿子，您的千金
媳妇，得罪做月婆，您立即扑过去，还必须老早天还没亮，帮了她好几天，连生意都没做。难道人家的妈妈爸爸有在，您就特别照顾吗？
接着，媳妇做完月子回娘家居住。一天，媳妇父母又事外出，您又每做生意，扑去照顾媳妇和孙子。
就连孙子病了，她老人家也紧张到上人外家门去。
另外，女儿肚泻。就说要立刻去看她，一天都拨了好几回的电话。担心到团团转。
我是外人，就如姐夫所说的不通姓氏的。这回我领会到了。
难道媳妇小产，做家婆的是不该到访及过问的吗？
我只懂，待遇有如360度的不同咯。没过问。只有那第一天人流后的一餐。只有那么多。
我在想，我在他们家做得不够好吗？还是做什么都不顺眼，不领情。
我，要学习坚强，学会自己照顾自己。还有，非常重要，丈夫的疼爱。那已经很足够了。
Sunday 16 September 2012
Friday 14 September 2012
人做月子
人做月子，你做月子。
人，有丈夫，有家公家婆，又爸爸妈妈，有做月婆。
你，有自己和女儿。
自己煮做月餐。准备食物给女儿。洗衣晒衣。样样都自己来啦。
各有个命水，没得怨。
那老人家，处处都为她。
到后来，不领情，算了。
给她吃的，她却说留给**吃。
那也好，看她道后来就由他们来服侍。
你，要学会自私些。
不，亏的是自己。
懂得照顾自己和女儿，好好栽培她。
人，有丈夫，有家公家婆，又爸爸妈妈，有做月婆。
你，有自己和女儿。
自己煮做月餐。准备食物给女儿。洗衣晒衣。样样都自己来啦。
各有个命水，没得怨。
那老人家，处处都为她。
到后来，不领情，算了。
给她吃的，她却说留给**吃。
那也好，看她道后来就由他们来服侍。
你，要学会自私些。
不，亏的是自己。
懂得照顾自己和女儿，好好栽培她。
要走的始终会走
停顿在五周, he/she left. Done DNC this week considers 8 weeks. No more heartbeat seen. Confirm miss miscarriage or silent miscarriage. Total charges RM2305.05.
Record: 14/09/2012
Sunway medical centre
Dr Wong Pak Seng
From: 15:45-16:15
Record: 14/09/2012
Sunway medical centre
Dr Wong Pak Seng
From: 15:45-16:15
Thursday 13 September 2012
Since last
Since last week 6/9/2012 I got the result that fetus din grow well by rite 7w3d, but measured 5w5d with slow fetal heart rate. No spotting n no cramp or other symptoms that I going to miscarriage. Dr put me on proluton n cyclogest. Back in a week time for check up whether is healthy pregnancy.
14/9/2012 in the next 3 hours will got to know how. The nite before by rite I was really tired n can sleep well. Because of stupid ppl til mid nite stil not back n din cal at all, usually wil wake up if notice he din back yet.
Wake up about 12, at last he's back n just lying down rite in front of door after drank. Chinese says 何苦？ really don't understand y all guys act like that. After long whole day busy with work n meeting till nite stil go for drink so cal company culture.
Man always say that we as wife din understand them, but did they think the other way round, do they understand us as their wife. Keep waiting n worrying at home. Their mind is work n earn money back. But do they put effort on how to secure their family n love wife n kids as well.
Non concern since last. What fault for me to go very stressful ivf to get us a baby. Why I need to work more n no time for my gal. This all came out in my mind since last week.
Wake up d at 2 whole nite house keeping n 抄写经书hope my baby will in good condition. Come n accompany mommy n jiejie so that jiejie din get bore playing herself.
Bless... But still leave to god for final...
14/9/2012 in the next 3 hours will got to know how. The nite before by rite I was really tired n can sleep well. Because of stupid ppl til mid nite stil not back n din cal at all, usually wil wake up if notice he din back yet.
Wake up about 12, at last he's back n just lying down rite in front of door after drank. Chinese says 何苦？ really don't understand y all guys act like that. After long whole day busy with work n meeting till nite stil go for drink so cal company culture.
Man always say that we as wife din understand them, but did they think the other way round, do they understand us as their wife. Keep waiting n worrying at home. Their mind is work n earn money back. But do they put effort on how to secure their family n love wife n kids as well.
Non concern since last. What fault for me to go very stressful ivf to get us a baby. Why I need to work more n no time for my gal. This all came out in my mind since last week.
Wake up d at 2 whole nite house keeping n 抄写经书hope my baby will in good condition. Come n accompany mommy n jiejie so that jiejie din get bore playing herself.
Bless... But still leave to god for final...
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